Hi everyone. It's Hazel, your favorite Middleburg canine! As I watch my human, Tom, go through changes in his life, I notice how common it is for humans to have to start over: your jobs, friendships or personal life.

Through the years, I have had to start over a few times. I have lost a few dog friends. Some moved away, some have gone to Doggie heaven, and some just don't want to play with me anymore. It makes me sad. Tom always says to me, and his therapy clients, "it's because our lives are like chapters in a book, and when people or dogs leave us, we need to start a new chapter without them. We need to embrace change as a positive thing."

To be honest, I don't like change. Not many dogs do. We are animals of habit and condition. I can't even stand it when Tom leaves the house for more than 30 minutes! I know I am spoiled because I am not left alone very often. When I am, I feel lonely.

Before Tom, there were dogs and humans that were "toxic" in my life. Another word I learned from Tom. The humans I lived with would just leave me alone for days. They never came home! But when you don't know any better, you just accept what you are given. It was awful.

It took a long time to trust Tom. I have lived with him for over seven years now and I still have moments of insecurity. Tom explained, "that's because you experienced so much trauma before you moved to Middleburg and came to live with me. When I leave, you are reminded of those horrible days and when I come home, you feel the joy of being with your human again." He's right! Each time he comes back into the house, I am happy again.

It was scary, this change in life. But every day got better. Much better! Tom made me realize I deserved a better life, as all dogs do. A good meal, a warm bed, and lots of hugs. He loves me, and boy, do I love him! And I trust him now. Starting over was a good thing. Don't be afraid to start over. It will be OK!

Remember, when you are loved, truly loved, they always come home. Wishing all dogs and their humans a Happy New Year!